Why Control is Costing You More Than You Think in Business
How to Shift from Force to Flow
Have you ever caught yourself thinking:
“If I could just plan everything perfectly, I’d finally feel safe to grow.”
It’s a common thought among entrepreneurs—especially those of us who are trying to build something meaningful in a world obsessed with certainty.
But that thought?
That relentless drive to control every variable, every outcome, every detail?
It’s not just personal conditioning.
It’s the residue of the 6th Wave of Consciousness—an energetic pattern still running through many businesses today.
What is the 6th Wave of Consciousness?
The 6th Wave is the frequency of hierarchy, control, and predictability. It’s the consciousness that built empires, industrial systems, and the idea that if you just follow the formula, success is guaranteed.
And to be fair, the 6th Wave has its gifts. It teaches us:
- How to create structure and strategy
- How to build stability
- How to discipline ourselves toward a goal
But like any energy, it carries a shadow.
The Shadow of the 6th Wave
The shadow of the 6th Wave is rigidity.
It’s the belief that if you loosen your grip, everything will fall apart.
It’s the compulsion to control, to predict, to make every move calculated.
In entrepreneurship, this shadow shows up as:
- Forcing your offers to “fit the market” even when they don’t align with your soul
- Micro-managing every aspect of your business because you don’t trust the process
- Dismissing your intuition because it doesn’t produce measurable outcomes
And while all of this may keep you busy, it rarely keeps you in flow.
Instead, it leads to burnout, creative stagnation, and a business that feels more like a burden than a relationship.
What’s the Alternative?
To move beyond the 6th Wave shadow, you don’t need more control.
You need relationship—specifically, a relationship with the spirit of your business.
I believe every business has an energetic consciousness of its own. It’s not just a brand or a set of services—it’s a living entity that carries wisdom, direction, and creative energy.
When you’re in conversation with your business, things change:
- You stop forcing strategies that don’t fit
- You receive intuitive guidance on what to create next
- You collaborate with your business, instead of controlling it
How to Start Building That Relationship
This is why I created Meet the Spirit of Your Business—a guided journey designed to help entrepreneurs connect with the energetic essence of their business.
It’s not a mindset hack or a strategy map. It’s a portal into dialogue, connection, and co-creation with your business as a living partner.
When you shift out of the 6th Wave shadow and into this relationship, your business starts to:
- Feel more aligned
- Grow with less resistance
- Evolve in ways that are uniquely yours
And the best part? It doesn’t have to be hard to start.
I’ve made the Meet the Spirit of Your Business journey available for just $9—because I believe every entrepreneur deserves to experience their business in this deeper, more connected way.
Ready to Move Beyond Control?
If you’re tired of controlling every part of your business just to keep it standing, this is your invitation to build a new kind of relationship.
👉 Start the Meet the Spirit of Your Business journey
You don’t have to force your business forward anymore. Let it guide you.